Evening routine
Evening routine
How to detox from your long and exhausting day? Maybe some stress or just a great day but without a lot of time for the most important person, YOU!
First of all a lot of you are still spending a lot of time on their phones before sleeping, right? You don’t want to hear this but maybe you knew, it’s better to quit the screen time, yes also the TV at least one hour before sleeping.
Why? Your brain is your control center. It's always busy even when you are sleeping. So sitting and watching Tv is actually not relaxing because your brains are still thinking. Sports are not relaxing because you're still moving your body. It’s just producing happy hormones that give you energy or a good feeling for a bit. Some scientific researches explained sleeping is sometimes also not resting, you have to come into this brainwave which will give you the rest you need. Yoga nidra is a very good tool to use, it can help you to go easier into sleeping. It is also helping you to rest. Some say yoga nidra is similar to 4 hours of sleep.
So what other things can help me to set up this steady routine to have a better sleep. The first thing is very simple, your body needs regularity. So going to bed at 10 PM is seen as the best time to sleep. Why? Between 10-2 it’s pitta time, so your mind gets active and you can’t sleep anymore. Maybe you get hungry because it’s pitta time, that’s why we eat the biggest meal in the middle of the day. Pitta is the digestive power, we call it the agni. In pitta time we digest food, emotions and everything we’ve been through on the day.
What if you have these sleeping problems, it’s hard to fall asleep, you keep on thinking and you can’t stop the mind. I will list a few easy tips:
- Eat light to digest foods during dinner, so not the biggest meal
- Prepare yourself before going to bed by making your own routine for example: having a bath (relaxing your nervous system), reading a book (no screens), lighting a candle (try to avoid other lights), and drinking some teas with less energizing herbs in it like chai tea. Chai latté is one of my favorite drinks. (drink it with almond milk, it’s calming down vata)
- Do a foot massage, we mostly forget that our feets are carrying us all day. It’s also the point with a lot of connections with the bodily tissues and the nerves. Give them a little oil massage before sleeping, it will warm them and calm them down.
- Breathing exercises to calm down, like the nadi shodana or some other techniques.
- Yoga asanas like viparati karani (simple: feet against the wall up), happy baby pose.
- A heavier blanket, it feels supported for the body to have some extra weight. That’s why a lot of people in summer still want this little blanket over their body.
- If it’s still not working, look into your diët and contact a practitioner for more personal advice.
Just before going to bed you can use this wonderful tool for your self reflection and development. JOURNALLING. I came across this tool a few years ago, (same as with a vision board) and I was mind blown how powerful it was. It really helps to write down what you feel to process it and heal from things that are stuck in your mind. You can just buy a simple journal and write in it everyday in the morning and/or evening. I know it’s personal, but I know a lot of successful people use it. You don’t need to keep it, I know someone who burns it at the end so nobody will get to know your secrets. It’s also beautiful to keep them to see your own process, although you might not read them again in the end.
So in general create your own evening routine, be mindful when to go to bed and when to eat. It’s logical thinking not to eat before sleeping, your body will need all the energy to digest the food and doesn’t have time for sleeping and when you will sleep, it might result in undigested food that will be stuck in your system.Another great thing is sound healing, there are some nice recordings about it on the internet as well. I use my own Tibetan bowl which helps me to ground and relax.
I hope this will help you a bit, for more questions you can always reach out to me!
Much love,
Melanie